There is something very endearing about the everyday life. Something very comforting in knowing what time to get up, what to eat for breakfast, which bus to take to work, which hobbies to go to after work, what to order for dinner and what time to get home, ready to go to bed. Ready for the next day quite like this one.
In a normal, typical everyday life little will change. Of course we eat different dishes and have different hobbies to go to but still. There is a pattern and it's comforting. We might make decisions between ordering a latte instead of a cappuccino but we still know what we are getting.
Everyday life is a comfort zone with reduced stress factors. It gives a secured feeling to know which bus to hop on to, how much the ride costs and where to get off. A friendly nod from a security guy downstairs assures you this day will be beginning just as well as all the others. How pleasant to get your morning coffee at the cafe without needing to place an order, fruit vendor knowing which fruits to pack for you.
I always use the same locker at the gym. There are several mopotaxi drivers who know my address. In my regular lunch place the waitress knows to heat up my food and what I want to drink. Once a week I go to get a portion of spicy papaya salad, som tum, and the guy knows how many chillies I like in it. In the everyday life my biggest worry and wonder is where my favorite pineapple man will be located at on that day. There are 2 options.
I love the wonders of the everyday life. Comforting and pleasant, to know the way the world works. No decisions, no anxieties, no changes. Everything is as it's supposed to be.
Establishing an everyday life is like a game. You have to choose your position and the goal. You have to get to know your co-players and challenges. Learn the rules. Be prepared for obstacles and stay focused. Keep your mind open and enjoy the journey.
There are two kinds of winners in this game. Ones who choose to keep playing the game and it's sequences, others wanting to begin an entirely new game. Only losers claim game over.
The everyday life can be a great joy, establishing an everyday life a great adventure!
